Primary Arms Cyclops with ACSS BDC sounds like it might work for you.
https://www.primaryarms.com/pa-1x-compac...icle-black
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnc9EdMv6m0
Also, you were (sorry Apple) using that EoTech wrong. You don't focus on the circle-dot, you focus on the target, and it clears right up. The grain when you focus on the reticle is an artifact of a true no-parallax, laser hologram, and is a non-issue when you're actually shooting at targets and focusing properly.
https://www.primaryarms.com/pa-1x-compac...icle-black
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lnc9EdMv6m0
Also, you were (sorry Apple) using that EoTech wrong. You don't focus on the circle-dot, you focus on the target, and it clears right up. The grain when you focus on the reticle is an artifact of a true no-parallax, laser hologram, and is a non-issue when you're actually shooting at targets and focusing properly.